• How Old Do You Have to Be to Babysit?

    Age-appropriate babysitter providing first aid to child at the bottom of the stairs.

    Date Published: November 11, 2024

    Babysitting is often seen as a rite of passage for children and teenagers — empowering their independence while earning money and gaining valuable experience in responsibility.

    A babysitter, also known as a sitter, is hired by a parent, grandparent, or guardian to temporarily care for a child. They may look after children of all ages and are usually paid per hour. Their work schedule can be consistent — whether part-time or full-time — or as needed.

    But what is the best babysitting age? Can 12 year olds babysit? Is there a legal age to babysit? Here’s what you need to know about how old do you have to be to babysit.

    Age Restrictions for Babysitters by State

    The babysitting recommended age varies by state (e.g., Florida, Texas, California). Most states do not have laws specifying a minimum age for babysitters, but some states have guidelines for how old a child should be before being left home alone.

    Many experts believe the best babysitting age is at least 12 or 13. The American Red Cross recommends babysitters be 11 years or older and offers several training courses that address babysitter skills and responsibilities. The recommended minimum age to participate is 11.

    • Babysitting Basics (Online Course): Designed for those ages 11 and older, this online babysitting training course teaches you how to provide care for infants and children, understand what to do in an emergency, choose age-appropriate activities, recognize and handle a range of behaviors, start your own babysitting business, and more.
    • Babysitters Training (In Person Course): Recommended for those ages 11 to 15, this course is designed to help participants develop leadership skills, build their business, keep themselves and others safe, help children learn how to behave, and understand primary child care and basic first aid.

    Babysitter Readiness

    Pinpointing an exact babysitting age readiness isn’t simple because children mature at different ages. A child's overall maturity level is more critical than babysitting age.

    • Do they have a track record of being responsible or attentive to younger siblings?
    • Do they already babysit friends and family?
    • Do they volunteer or participate in extracurricular activities where childcare experience is required, such as an after-school tutoring program?
    • Can they keep themselves safe?
    • Do they know what to do and who to call in an emergency?
    • Can they handle activities of daily living, like hygiene, nutrition, and safety?

    Regardless of the legal age to babysit, a child should be able to do all the above, in addition to the following:

    • Do they know what to do if another child is hurt?
    • Can they provide healthy meals, maintain a schedule, and tidy the house?
    • Can they manage a child’s emotions and provide support if there is an argument or temper tantrum?

    What Training is Recommended for a Babysitter?

    Recommended training for a babysitter includes Pediatric First Aid, CPR and AED certification, early childhood education, and child care courses to enhance babysitter skills for your resume.

    The American Red Cross offers babysitting and child care courses to prepare babysitters with universal skills and techniques. Courses are available online or in person and cover many important topics. Just a few of the things our babysitting classes cover include:

    • Age-Appropriate Activities
    • Basic Care for Infants and Children
    • Basic First Aid
    • Child Behavior
    • Emergency Protocols
    • Growing Your Business
    • Leadership
    • Professionalism

    Babysitting Safety Tips

    In addition to being mature, babysitters should understand safety and how to respond to an emergency. Basic safety knowledge is expected for babysitter skills. For example, a babysitter should not open the door to strangers or talk on the phone when caring for children (unless there is an emergency.)

    Regardless of babysitting age, many families may expect babysitter skills to include specific training and safety qualifications, such as first aid and cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) certifications.

    Other babysitting safety tips include:

    • Identify emergency contact information: Prepare a list of emergency contacts, including phone numbers and addresses, and where to find emergency supplies. Make sure the hiring family also provides their emergency contact information.
    • Prepare instructions: Write down important information, such as time routines, allergies, or medications, and what to do in case of an emergency. Also, understand how to use any necessary household appliances or devices.
    • Set boundaries: Identify areas of the house that are off-limits and relay any internet, phone, or TV usage rules.
    • Practice: Before taking on a babysitter job, babysit siblings or family friends while an adult is still at home.

    Babysitting FAQs

    What are the basic qualifications to become a babysitter?

    To become a babysitter, you should demonstrate responsibility, have prior child care experience, and preferably obtain certifications like first aid and CPR.

    Knowing basic first aid and CPR will boost your babysitter resume skills and set you apart. Someone who has taken the time to learn CPR (like child & baby CPR) and first aid (like child & baby first aid) skills would likely be chosen over someone who hasn’t.

    • First aid teaches how to respond to various injuries and illnesses, such as burns, cuts, scrapes, sudden illnesses, injuries, heat and cold emergencies, and breathing and cardiac emergencies.
    • CPR focuses solely on how to perform resuscitation techniques and chest compressions to revive a person who has stopped breathing or whose heart has stopped beating.

    Is there a specific age requirement for babysitting?

    While the babysitting age requirement varies by state, The American Red Cross recommends that babysitters be at least 11 years old.

    How do I know if my child is ready to babysit?

    Even if your child is technically old enough to babysit, age isn’t the only determining factor. Talk to them about what is expected of a babysitter and what the role entails. Ask questions and get a sense of whether this is something they want to do. Assess their maturity level and willingness to take on the responsibilities of a babysitter.

    Do I need formal training to become a babysitter?

    Formal training, such as first aid and CPR certifications, is highly encouraged because it demonstrates your ability to handle emergencies effectively.

    Do I need to provide references as a babysitter?

    Having a list of references is beneficial. Parents often request references to verify your qualifications and skills.

    What is the legal age to babysit?

    Legal babysitting age requirements are limited and vary depending on where you live (e.g., Florida, Texas, California).

    How do I build trust and a good reputation as a babysitter?

    Building a trustworthy reputation involves gaining experience, obtaining certifications, providing references, and consistently demonstrating responsible child care practices.

    Is a babysitter the same as a nanny?

    Often, the terms babysitter and nanny or au pair are used interchangeably. This is a common misunderstanding, especially because the responsibilities of a babysitter and nanny overlap significantly. There are several differences between a nanny and babysitter.

    As a parent, you know your child best. If you feel your child is (or isn’t) ready to care for someone else’s child, even if they meet the babysitting age and safety precautions, it's okay to trust your instincts.

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    About Red Cross Training Services

    Training Services is a division of the American Red Cross with the mission to spread knowledge and educate as many members of the national community in lifesaving procedures. Our services include training courses for CPR and AED, First Aid, BLS (Basic Life Support), babysitting, Caregiving, Lifeguarding Water Safety, and more.